Hi again everyone, as promised I am back this week with this season's edition of What I Think I Learned. Year 5 definitely brought about some new things and some firsts, some old things reared their ugly heads as well, but those will be a different story for another day. Going about this a tiny bit different than previous years because I'm including a story about one of those "firsts" to help explain a couple of the things I think I learned, enjoy.

Like I said, I had a couple of my "firsts" this year, including my first “I’m an asshole” email that I’ve had since I started coaching in Brookline. It was a good run, oh well. I'm trying to shrug it off only because I know who I am and I'm not a hardo coach, but some of the policies and methodologies can make it feel like I am. The incident that brought this about gave me two of the things I learned so I’ll briefly explain.
 
I’m going to call the player here Player Z because I’m not about to put names down and I’ll also withhold most finer details of what happened.
 
During training (practice) one day, during a contact drill Player Z took a knock to the head and it was a suspected concussion. The rule is, when in doubt, sit them out, so I withheld them from the rest of practice. Problems arose when Player Z kept trying to get back in to drills despite my telling, along with their teammates, they need to sit because of suspected concussion. The short version of the rest is, this led to me asking Player Z to leave the field for the day and make sure they are playing this sport for the right reason, something I always ask of particular players season to season.
 
In the following days I got aforementioned email, replied that I would be willing to talk it out with the coaches and the family. Unfortunately, no such meeting took place.
 
What I Think I Learned
 
Protecting players might get them mad- There’s a balance to this simply because of the nature of the sport, but yes for the most part players that you need to protect the most are the ones that will be annoyed with you the most. There were several times this season we either did not play certain players or pulled them early because there were major injury concerns of one nature or another. You can only protect them so much because players do get hurt, can’t be under any illusion like that. In the end, yes, some players may well hate your guts in the moment but will thank you later for protecting them.
 
The players have to be there for their own reason no one else’s- Often times in a season I will find myself telling the players to find their why. Anything worth doing has to have something like that behind it. This season in particular I felt there were more players than normal that were in the club because of external reasons.
 
-A parent played
-A sibling played
-My best friend played
So on
 
All the above are perfectly fine reason to sign up, but to finish the season and give it their all, especially in a sport that can be as difficult as rugby, players need something a whole lot deeper than that.

Enjoy the moments- There are big moments and small moments to enjoy in a season. I found there were many on opposite ends of the spectrum this season in particular. Some very lopsided score lines with some not particularly good play paired with it, file that under not so good.

Then, we had a team win a semi-final and make it to the State final. The final itself did not go well, but the semi-final win was a moment we got to enjoy and nobody on that team will forget for a long long time. Yes, the big ogre did shed a few tears of joy as well. Loads of happy little moments in the aftermath of that game as well, obviously this qualifies as a great moment.
 
And there you have it my friends, as I mentioned a bit of a different feel, but this is what I think I learned from this club this season. Off-season commence and the days start counting down to mid March once again. Thanks again to you all for glancing your eyes at this and have yourself an awesome week and 4th of July for my friends here in the U.S.

Hello all! I'm back into this writing thing after a very good and long season with the high school team. Those of you that have been around, yes you can expect my What I Think I Learned While Coaching piece soon, probably next week. Today I'm into something more off the cuff that has hit a nerve the past week; certs, made up certs and letters, enjoy.

Why is it the fitness industry, coaches and trainers, are so damn focused on putting more letters next to their name? Having so many letters next to your name that it sounds like a blood test being ordered in the emergency room does not make you worth more.

Seems coaches and trainers don't bother to ask things like, does it have relevance to anyone I’m training? No? Let’s put it on there anyway.
Is this a real certification and has to do with my training? Oh not even one bit? Well let’s put it on there for decoration.

The unfortunate part of all this, most people will see these letters and won’t bother checking, if the trainer/coach actually passed the certification, whether or not it's actually a thing (a real certification), and take it at face value, paying these fools, silly amounts of money.

In the end you can have many certs and letters following your name, or very few and neither matters. No matter the amount of letters or which particular letters following a coaches name, if they are worth the time, it can be figured out within a few minutes and a few questions.

Is this a passion and/or a career, or a side gig/hobby? If it's the latter, pass on them.

Do they talk about themselves more than you or the client? Yes? Ditch them

Do they go with the latest trends, toys, bells and whistles, or do they lean on the good stuff with a sprinkle of the fun stuff? Anything other than the 2nd part, it's likely not worth your time or money.

Lastly, do they care about their people or their paycheck? This will be fairly obvious if you pay attention and if it's more about their paycheck than you, the only word you need to utter is  Next.

I know I'm coming back into it strong with a bit of venom, a bit scrambled, but with venom. This stuff needs to be sorted and if I share this with you all it's more people that can help sniff out the BS. Look forward to sharing more with you and maybe with a little less bite behind it. Have a day friends!